The Threesome – Fantasy vs. Reality

Hello!

Many argue that reality always beats the fantasy, but I must argue against that. Many times I do have the naughtiest fantasies and they really turn me on. I mean REALLY A LOT. But when I start thinking about them in a more practical sense, I often feel that I would probably not enjoy them at all due to a long list of reasons, of which some of the most important ones for me are trust and security.

I would like to use the example of a threesome for my arguments and insights.

I can’t even count the number of times I have received comments or suggestions that I should be in a threesome, and my standard reply is always, “Sorry, not my thing!”

But is it really not my thing?

Because if I search for answers within my fantasies, it is DEFINITELY my thing.

The number of times I have touched myself while thinking about either being satisfied by two men at the same time OR satisfying two men at the same time is basically endless. The number of shaking orgasms I have had while exploring this area in my mind and playing with dual dildos is a pretty huge sign that a threesome is a major turn-on for me.

Even in bed with my husband, when we talk while satisfying each other, the topic of a threesome is a major turn-on. I love the way he describes how he would let another man handle me and feel me, while at the same time letting me experience the weight and sensation of two men. He also gets very turned on when I share my desires about wanting to satisfy more than one at a time and imagine the aftermath and my satisfied smile afterwards.

So, in order not to get too carried away in my thoughts at the moment, my conclusion is as follows:

I am definitely a woman who has huge potential to enjoy a threesome with two men. All my secret desires and fantasies point towards that.

As you, the reader, can probably understand, I have had this as a private dream for a very long time.

So the question is…

Why haven’t I tried it?

This takes me back to the first question: what is fantasy compared to reality?

For me, fantasies can sometimes be better when it comes to things that might trigger my insecurities. And to answer that in more detail, I will actually write down my naughtiest desires when it comes to being with two men and also why I am hesitant 😉

So stay tuned… 💋

Angelina

PS. Be sure not to miss out on Part 2 .DS